6 Expert Advice For Indian Brides To Cope With Mother-in-law's Issues

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You have just ended up with a sweetest destination wedding ceremony in Thailand or somewhere else, now is time to get back on reality, you will have to live ̣(or not together) with your mother-in-law. Whether you find it difficult to cope with or just naturally easy, there's still some technique to work out this issue if there is one.





Your bond with your mother-in-law should be like a smooth drive towards a healthy relationship goal. It’s a job and pleasure of every bride to keep her mother-in-law happy and fulfilled with her gestures and love towards her. Being an apple of the eye of your mother-in-law is a great achievement and will lead you to a greater adjustability in the new home environment and of course, an even happier married life. Here are few steps from HappyWedding.Life that will make your mother-in-law fall for you.




Accept Each Other


It is an essential part of any relationship, to accept each other. Keep your arms open and you have to let yourself accept her with all her flaws and perfections and she will do the same for you. You both may differ in your ideologies, a way of completing things and choice of living but then, in the end of the day, you have to live under the same roof and stay happy. Don’t pay attention to the things you don’t like and she is going to do the same. This kind of mutual understanding is necessary to build a strong relationship.





Respect Her Age


She might not be the’ coolest mom’ you would have thought about but she is definitely the best of the person of her age. She is trying her best for diminishing the gaps between you and her and you should be no less in doing the same. Understand the fact that she is doing something which is likely to happen at her age and she is not intending to trouble you or anybody. Respect her fully and you will be on her good lists.




Be Bnderstanding


Sometimes it can be hard for mothers to let go of their son and watch them get married and have another woman in their life. It’s an adjustment for everyone. Try to be understanding and put yourself in her shoes. Think about how certain situations may make her feel, and how it would make you feel if you were in her position.




Listen To Learn


Just like having to communicate your feelings with your mother-in-law, she needs to be able to do the same with you. Take the time to listen to how she’s feeling and what she needs from you as her daughter-in-law. Ask her things like, “What can I do to improve our relationship?” You both have your own needs, so take the time to make sure those needs are met. A great relationship is a two-way street.




Spend Time With Her


One-on-one time together is great. It allows the two of you to bond without any distractions. Get together for coffee or try out one of her favorite hobbies. Be willing to think outside the box and try something new. You can also cook with her. This will help your relationship to grow more. Take her for shopping and buy a beautiful saree or clutches. 





Be Polite


Whether you like your mother-in-law or not, you need to be polite when you’re around her. You aint a fan of your mother-in-law at all, but you should be polite on the rare occasion that you are with her. You can take the time to ask her how she’s been and offer to pay for dinner. You are recommended to learn to accept the fact that she is family regardless of his dislike for her. 



You both will have your own strengths and weaknesses. There’s nothing wrong with that, so don’t waste your time trying to outdo her. It’s not worth it to waste your time stressing over the fact that she’s better than your at something. Rather than trying to be better than her, you should ask her for some of her favorite recipes and ask for her advice on making my meals more exciting. This will keep your relationship stronger.


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