6 Things That Make You Feel Broken When In Love With a Narcissist

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When you are in a relationship with a narcissistic personality, chances are your relationship will be in a downward spiral. How do you spot such a relationship and how do you plan to get around it? Ending a relationship isn’t the easiest way out all the time. HappyWedding.Life tries to ease out your worries and bring you everything on narcissistic relations. Here are a few ways in which your partner’s narcissism can strain the relationship.


No Unconditional Love: Your partner will never be able to love you fully. Most narcissists have trouble loving and accepting their own self for the way they are.

Unable To Understand Your Needs: Being too focused on his or her own needs, your partner will never be able to understand the extent of your needs in the relationship.

Take You For Granted: As your partner will have a very grand feeling about his or her image, they will almost always take you for granted. You will be the partner in the relationship who will always be there, no matter what. As a result, your partner will not make any extra efforts to make sure you feel happy or loved.


No Control Over Your Life: While you are in a relationship with a narcissist, you will start to lose control of your views, opinions, your choices and very soon, almost all aspects of your life. Your partner will very convincingly control you and in time, will also start taking decisions on your behalf. The following effect may be that you may start reflecting your partner’s views, and actions.

Extreme Jealousy And Loss Of Social Life: Your partner will tend to get jealous very soon and may take your inattention as a sign of disinterest. It could reach a point where your partner could accuse you of being unloving and uncaring. Also, your partner may start getting uncomfortable of your other relationships, such as your relationships with your friends, co-workers or family, and demand your hundred percent attention, time, and love.


Loss Of Self-Worth: Your narcissist partner will never be happy in the relationship, and there will be times when you will feel guilty and responsible for the same. You may think that you are not good enough for your partner and that the reason your partner is not happy is because of your failings. Soon your feelings can turn inward, where you will hold yourself responsible for your partner’s negative attitude.


How To Deal With A Narcissistic Husband Or Wife

  • Do not give in to your partner’s attention seeking tactics. Instead, tell yourself that it is alright to take time out for yourself and spend it the way you want to.
  • Tell yourself that you are a wonderful person who is capable of loving and taking smart decisions. Keep your self-worth on one of your higher priority points and make sure you remind yourself each day that you deserve love, respect, and admiration.
  • If you are trying to work out the relationship but feel constantly criticized, get in touch with people who are aware of your nature and speak to them. Go out and meet friends, talk to them over the phone, and reassert your importance and your goodness as a human being.


  • Understand that you cannot suddenly change your partner’s personality, and you may never be able to change your partner’s personality at all. Do consider if you wish to live like this forever.
  • Think of the gestures your partner has made that made you feel loved and happy. It will help to reaffirm your faith in your partner and the relationship as a whole.
  • Do not shy away from sharing your feelings with your partner. If you feel unloved and unworthy in the relationship, tell your partner about it without worrying that it will hurt your partner. Be honest in your communication and talk without fear.
  • Tell your partner about the things that are not acceptable to you in a relationship and set some boundaries. Also, make sure you tell your partner the consequences of breaking those boundaries, but do so without sounding admonishing or punishing.

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