Helpful Relationship Secrets From 70-Years-Of-Love Couples

2017.10.30 120

A research has been showing that more and more Japanese are not getting married, stay isolated or even having sex with plastic dolls. What's the cause? Stress from married-life, pressure from finances or whatever. The media constantly pressurize us with stories about how difficult marriage is, punctuated by gossip about how another seemingly "invincible" beloved celebrity couple is breaking up. 

Getting marriage today seems to be a burden rather than being joyful like what our dad and mom have been done years ago. Yet, there's some facts about how to maintain a good marriage as relationship's secrets from 70-years-of-love couple that will work out throughout every revolution.

Yet, there's still something you should look at in this article. Lessons from our old generations about love-life.

Be Helpful

“Be helpful to one another. Make the bed together in the morning. Always be doing something to make your partner’s life a little easier. That’s the secret.”

Be helpful, plain and simple. Of course it’s important to take good care of yourself in a relationship, too. But I think we focus too much on autonomy, loneliness, and independence these days. It seems like we seek it as a sign of strength. One of the greatest gifts of marriage is having someone there to support you when you need it most. You lift one another up. And we offer a mirror of the best and worst in one another. And when we see something we don’t like, that’s where we get tripped up…


Stay Together

“Try to be together as much as possible. You have rough times in life. Sometimes the road gets a little bit rocky, but don’t ever go to bed mad at each other. Never do that. But also learn to not carry on in useless arguments. What’s gained in that?”

Half the battle is staying together. Why do we huff and puff and blow our own houses down? I do believe we need to keep healthy friendships that help us grow and connect outside the context of the relationship. Being too close offers its own set of challenges. As I look at my own relationship, I think we’ve got the “spend as much time together as you can” part down. We’re headed on another summer roadtrip together. We work, play, and do everything together. And that brings us a sense of deep understanding and shared experience. It can also be a real test of patience sometimes, but it’s all about alignment…


Make Decisions as a Team

“You know, that’s a downfall. Many times people should have waited and talked things over with another before they did them. A lot of times we made the decision, and WE should have made the decision. You regret it afterwards.”

People really appreciated hearing those words. Making good decisions together is such an important lesson. It’s too easy to get prideful and think you know the way. The reason why we pair up is to build a life together, and we should be respectful of our partner’s perspective. They may see what’s been in your blind spot. Especially when it comes to the big choices, always make them as a team.

Marriage is not a period of life-time, it's a sort of career. We should have built it little by little everyday in order to enjoy its goodness afterwards. 


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